For Texas and California Residents
Couple therapy can help restore your relationship. Whether you are dating, engaged, or married for several years, it is quite common to encounter difficulties in your relationship. Perhaps you feel as though you and your significant other have grown apart over time, or that you aren’t spending as much time together as you once did previously. Maybe there are residuals of mistrust because of a physical or emotional affair. Perhaps you feel pressure from family members and friends to take certain actions in your relationship. Or maybe you are repeatedly having what feels like the same argument/disagreement. If you have had a similar experience, couple therapy may be the right step for you. Polyamorous/Consensually non-monogamous partners welcome.
If you are ready to schedule a therapy appointment, we invite you to to book a free 15-minute consultation to get started. We look forward to hearing from you!
Even with love and the best of intentions, relationship problems can arise at any stage of a relationship or marriage. Couple therapy will allow you the emotional safety to be vulnerable with your partner so that you both can identify and process difficult-to-understand emotions and unlearn dynamics that are not serving your relationship. Couple therapy will help you set the stage for the new “dance” you will learn with your partner. I specialize in helping couples navigate issues related to same-gender-loving relationships. Polyamorous/Consensually non-monogamous partners welcome.
Couple therapy helps you and your partner express your relationship needs, worries, or conflicts in a neutral and comfortable setting. Many couples’ issues are rooted in poor communication or strained connection, which often leads to marital conflict, sexual issues, infidelity, or emotional withdrawal. Couple Therapy helps to restore open communication and to recognize and release the negative emotions that are getting in the way of your relationship.
Many couples fear the process of couples therapy, and this is normal. This is often due to feelings of guilt or embarrassment that things are not going as they initially hoped in their relationship. Several individuals fear that the therapist will make judgments of them for their problems or choices; others have concerns that their feelings won’t be validated in therapy sessions. Some couples find themselves stuck in the ‘blame game’ and are unable to see themselves clearly due to being distracted by their own emotional pain, while others surround themselves with numerous distractions as to avoid working through conflict. Because of mental health stigma, couples often view therapy as a “last and final resort” and don’t seek the help they need until they are facing the option of separating.
There are several indicators in couple relationships that point toward general dissatisfaction. Ask yourself:
As we build our working relationship, we will decide on our goals for therapy. This will help us begin addressing problems in the relationship. From there, we will work with you and your partner to examine any relational breakdown, along with tools for fostering a stronger bond. We draw on the contributions of Dr. Sue Johnson’s Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) and other system therapies to support the repair of your bond and shift the emotional “dance” between the partners in a relationship. EFT focuses on accessing deeper emotions with your partner in a manner that enhances your sense of feeling safe and seen in a newfound way.
LGBTQ affirming covers conflicts, coming out, social isolation, lack of support, life stressors, conformity pressures, and fear of judgment.
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